When you agree to spend your life with someone do you also agree to give up the concept of privacy? I had thought not but evidently this is what is expected.
It will take you a long time to understand that finding out about me by snooping around is really going to just land you in front of the many many faces I have manufactured over the years.....none of these are who I really am........I don't open up this way and infact I lock down further when such things are seen.