Competition

So is it just social pressure and the fear of stigma that keeps this train wreck going? Slowly but surely I realize that despite the sadness of this fact...it is infact very true. Competition is healthy but it doesn't work in every relationship....infact there are some relationships where competition needs to be done away with. This is your problem! You try and compete on every issue....every non issue.....I know you will never acknowledge this but in the end this is the main issue that tears us apart at the seams. Things are supposed to be simple....they are supposed to be happy......but I don't see that coming anywhere in the near future.

Is it unreasonable for me to want simplicity in this relationship? Is it unreasonable that I want you to rely on me for somethings?